Mabel Lee: i agree with Cecilia JinYan. while your husband seem to care for you (doing housework etc.), if you allow your husband to keep this attitude up, it's not going to be good for you and your child. your child will learn his behavior and attitude, and think it's ok to treat you and maybe even others the same - vent their anger on person, then apologise later.
it will be great if you can both attend marriage counselling together to work it out. it's may not seem like a big thing, but his action can be considered a form of abuse - emotional and mental abuse. i wish both of you the best, especially if you two still love each other a lot, but don't know how to express your love for one another in a better way.
Nining Rowe: early years of marriage with children is when teething problems come. Do not give up. Your hubby is the type that talk first regret later, this is unfortunately very common.,. but at least he does regrets it and knows he shouldnt say those things. I recommend instead of talking verbally, write a letter for him to read. Put the title in the envelope: to be read with a cool head and give ur kiss there. Letter will help u to communicate ur feelings clearer and thoroughly without having him on the defensive mode. If talking verbally, most ppl will be on the defensive mode and you will loose track in what u actually want to say..
Susan Limsh: Divorce will not solved the problem. Especially when u have kids. And nobody is perfect, we tend to have disagreement. I know say is easier then do but let face it, which family don't have problem. I will suggest that when Both of u cool down n get a marriage councilor to help. I hope u can get thing solved out n have a wonderful family again. All the best to you.
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and give ur kiss there. Letter will help u to communicate ur feelings clearer and thoroughly without having him on the defensive mode. If talking verbally, most ppl will be on the defensive mode and you will loose track in what u actually want to say..
