6 Fabulous Ways to Manage the Challenging Voyage to Parenthood

June 19, 2008

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Bringing up a child is a challenging voyage. Both parents play an equally important role by complimenting each other in helping the child navigates his way during his growing up years by nurturing the child. There will be disagreements and squabbles along the way. Here’s how your parenting partnership could be developed.

1. Work as an entity
Disciplinary measures are most effective when both parents reach a consensus on how behavioral problems should be dealt with. If a child learns that he could always get what he wants from one parent and not the other, he will tend to manipulate one parent against another. Furthermore, by reinforcing a rule together, it indicates to the child the importance of the matter.

2. Discuss parenting issues
My husband and I love to sit down together and discuss about our children while they are asleep at night. As a stay- at- home mum, I am more aware of the developments of my children so I will update him on the interesting things that they did throughout the day as well as behavioral problems that I foresee. We will brainstorm for solutions together and agree on how to deal with these issues.

3. Be role model
Your children look up upon you as a role model. They learn to act and think from your way and your attitudes of life. Be positive about life and towards each other.

4. Be a source of information to your child
As a child grows, he will be curious about a lot of things. My son has been asking me lots of “what is this?” Try as often as possible to teach while you talk to your child and not just answer meaninglessly. You are a great source of information. Interact more with them as it will provide you more opportunities to understand them. For instant, I will try to sit down with my children when they watch television programmes and explain to them what is going on.

5. Share parenting responsibilities
Allow each other to take a break. Taking care of a child for a long period without a break can be stressful. Maybe daddy can help to take care of the child while mummy can do her retail therapy. Alternatively, leave your child with some relatives so that the two of you can spend some time together.

6. Show love and respect to each other

Home is a place where children develop a sense of security. The best gift for them is a harmonious relationship between the parents. Careers and children are important but do not neglect your spouse too. Do not take your spouse for granted. Show appreciation to each other. Your marriage play an important role to the development of your child. Build a strong foundation for your relationship as it is as important as building a strong bond with your child.

Nurturing a child can be an enjoyable journey. The power of two is very important. With little efforts from both the parents, you can raise confident and happy children together!

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